I hate how I get to the point where I think I’ve got it all figured out, I know what I need to do next (just take the leap, jump off that cliff and go for it) and then . . . nothing. Anti-climactic much? (Oh, so that’s NOT the edge of a cliff just a ledge you can’t quite see from this vantage point. Interesting.)
I feel like I’m always on the verge of making a BIG decision and I get that I’m being too preoccupied and weird and just stalling because I’m either afraid that I won’t make it or afraid that I will (must be afraid of one but I think I might be afraid of both which is just so useless it makes my ears bleed and then all I can think is how can I put this frustrating contradiction into some character passing by and get it to work – is it bad that I use fictional people as ad hoc therapy?) but then I realize that I’m avoiding making any decisions.
And its not what I want to do. It’s not what I NEED to do. And yet, there I am, doing it anyway. Even though I kept saying I was going to start taking the stairs at work everyday it took getting trapped in the elevator (which was pretty much 100% my stupid fault anyway) to get me to actually start with that next step.
So maybe I have to hit the STOP button and get myself stuck in my metaphorical literary elevator. But what does that mean? And do I have the guts to do it – to commit and not turn back and damn all the consequences? If I can get myself to believe it, I know I can persevere and power through and do awesome things. (I’ve completed NaNoWriMo both times I’ve tried, I completed most of my senior thesis in 4 hour blocks over 3 weeks and still managed to pump out absuridsm at its best, I wrote a really good novel inspired by a box of fishsticks in the freezer.)
But it’s getting myself to believe it that’s the hard part. Am I ready to pick up the phone and call for help, no false alarm just a true literary emergency?